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  • Meredith Sheppard
  • June 2, 2024

“Malchijah the son of Harim and Hashub the son of Pahath-Moab repaired another section, as well as the Tower of the Ovens. And next to him was Shallum the son of Hallohesh, leader of half the district of Jerusalem; he and his daughters made repairs.” Nehemiah 3:11-12

We’re familiar with the story of Nehemiah and how he spearheaded the task of rebuilding the wall around Jerusalem. While the task was great, fraught with peril, often opposed, and requiring many hands—a few of those hands belonged to women, the daughters of Shallum.

Little is known of these industrious women. Their names are never mentioned. Nevertheless, the service rendered by these remarkable women remains immortalized in Scripture,

“… [Shallum] and his daughters made repairs.”

As I read the book of Nehemiah, it’s easy for me to imagine the work of these women. Growing up in a family of all girls, my sisters and I often worked alongside our father. We were known in the neighborhood as the Richardson girls. My two elder sisters were often referred to as merely the twins.

This is the proverbial plight of the pastor’s wife, that nameless woman who serves alongside her husband. However, like the daughters of Shallum, pastors’ wives are remarkable women. Not only do we serve alongside our husbands, we serve alongside our heavenly Father in the business of rebuilding. We are women called by God to bless, build up, edify, encourage, fortify, and strengthen the body of Christ.

We live in a broken world. Broken hearts and broken homes litter the landscape with the rubble of countless ragged relationships. That which was once held sacred has become a barren wasteland, much like the Jerusalem of Nehemiah’s day.

Here’s another Scripture to consider, “Those from among you shall build the old waste places; you shall raise up the foundations of many generations; and you shall be called the Repairer of the Breach, the Restorer of Streets to Dwell In” (Isa. 58:12).

The daughters of Shallum left a powerful precedent for pastors’ wives. Like never before, we must commit to being women of the Word—dutiful daughters who work alongside our heavenly Father, who aren’t afraid to roll up our sleeves and get our hands dirty as we help to rebuild, raise up, repair, and restore.

This Post Has 14 Comments

  1. Celia June 3, 2024

    Bless the Lord for this wonderful reminder. We must roll up our sleeves and get our hands dirty, ready and willing to work in the vineyard.

    1. Meredith Sheppard June 3, 2024

      Amen! Time’s out for “sitting pretty.” These women left a wonderful work ethic for us to follow.

  2. Wendy June 3, 2024

    Love this.

    1. Meredith Sheppard June 3, 2024

      Praise the Lord! So glad that this ministers to you!

  3. Lelia Greenslade June 3, 2024

    I agree whole heartedly that the powerful tool of the word and prayer are the only two things that will sustain and carry us through the times we now live in.
    “But his (her) delight is in the law of Lord, and in his law doth he (she) meditates day and night.”
    “And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, That bringeth forth his fruit in his season; His leaf also shall not wither; And whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.”
    ‭‭Psalm‬ ‭1‬:‭2-3

    1. Meredith Sheppard June 6, 2024

      Amen. Thanks, Lelia! The Scriptures you posted underscore the power of God’s Word!

  4. Shellene Welsh June 3, 2024

    ‘Rebuild, raise up, repair, and restore.’” Even after so many years of serving, this message still rings true.

    1. Meredith Sheppard June 6, 2024

      Amen. It’s amazing how God’s Word at work in our lives never gets old. May the Lord continue to bless, empower, and use you, Shellene.

  5. Kim McDuffie June 4, 2024

    Thanks for the encouragement, sometimes we need the reminder of our strength 🙏 in Christ ( our duties).

    1. Meredith Sheppard June 6, 2024

      Amen, Kim. We are strong in the Lord and His mighty power.

  6. Shellie Whittington-Jones June 5, 2024

    We are called to SERVE!!!!-♥️

    1. Meredith Sheppard June 6, 2024

      Dearest Shellie, we are indeed! I’m so thankful for how you let the Lord use you. What a blessing you are to God’s Kingdom, especially to pastors’ wives. Ask me how I know!

  7. Betty Marsters June 10, 2024

    Being a Pastor’s wife is indeed a calling. Many of us married our hubbies before they were anointed by God to be a Pastor. Many of us didn’t ask to be a Pastor’s wife but as you say Meredith, we must commit to being women of the Word. God will, and has, equipped Pastor’s wives to grow in their role. One step in front of the other, one prayer after another and our heavenly Father will use a Pastor’s wife mightily to reach hearts for His Kingdom. As you say, like never before we must commit to this role and work alongside our Father, roll up our sleeves and allow God to use each of us. This world desperately needs the Lord. Even as a “retired” Pastor’s wife (as I am) this does not exclude us from doing all we can to help hearts that are hurting and that are in need. One day Christ will say to us, “The war is over Children. It’s time to go Home.” but until that day we must not give up on rebuilding, repairing, restoring and raising up those who are struggling.. We must never give up or give in.

    1. Meredith Sheppard June 11, 2024

      Betty, you nailed it! And by the way, you are one of the hardest working retired pastor’s wives I know. You continue to rebuild, repair, restore, and raise up those who are struggling. I guess you never really retire from the calling God has on your life.
      Thank you for being that trusted sister, comrade, sometimes mother-figure, and friend to me. God has used you and Rick to help rebuild and restore Paul and me, and countless others.
      You must write an article for me! You have such wisdom and love for PWs. 💕

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